Oliver Rossi Getty Images Here's what the bi women had to say: “You have to ask a girl to suck your dick but guys will ask to suck your dick,” another man wrote. (This may also explain why guys are better at giving head. What was also interesting was that men seem to be much more enthusiastic about giving blowjobs. “Gotta say in my experience guys are way better a blow jobs,” one male Reddit user wrote. There was a general consensus among bi men that guys are better at giving head than women. 'Sometimes I want a nice intimate night out with a diverse menu and great service (being with a woman) and sometimes I'm drunk, it's 3am, and I just need to find a place that's still open (being with a guy).' 'For me it's a lot like getting dinner,' wrote another bi man. It's also a lot easier to hook up with guys, according to another Reddit user. This makes sense since in order to bottom with a woman, you need to get pegged (or digital penetration and sex toys works too)! Pegging or anal/prostate play on a man by a woman is unfortunately still considered kinky or taboo, whereas when you’re a man having sex with another man, that isn’t a kink-that’s just what sex is.
Many bi men are the “tops” (insertive partner) with women, whereas they are 'bottoms' (receptive partner) with men.