Let him know that you're new to the scene. Stand or sit at the Bar, buy the bartender a drink, chat to him while he's not busy. Plenty of people sensibly avoid mixing alcohol and sex!Īll bars sell non-alcoholic beers and/or soft drinks and coffee etc.Ī glass of soda water with ice and a dash of lime is refreshing, and who would know what you're drinking? - you won't stand out.
I'll post my 'standard advice' - just pick the bones out of it to suit yourself -ĭon't be put off going to a Gay Bar just because you don't drink alcohol.
